This weekend was home coming weekend for Keith. Keith usually does not participate in social functions, but this weekend he did. He went to the football game on Friday, and then the dance on Saturday; I took him to both events.
In the past these type of events have been challenges. I worried while he was at both events and waited for my phone to ring, but it didn't. I was very anxious about him attending even though I want him to be involved with his friends and school events.
It is very hard to let to go when you worry if it will be disastrous or not. Who said it was going to be easy to let them grow up? Who said we would be glad when it is over? I can remember the child hanging onto my leg and not wanting to go to school. Sometimes it is hard to except the fact that it may be time to let go; at least a little.
I am very pleased that it was a joyful event, and a good experience.
Sunday, September 19, 2010
Every Which Way
I am the single mom of 3 wonderful children. My oldest child is grown and is a very successful computer guru.
The ages of my other children are 16 and 9. My sixteen year old (Keith) was diagnosed with ADHD when he was 5 and we continue to have adventures as he grows older.
My youngest (John) was diagnosed with Bi Polar disorder last year. I was always told he was very strong willed and stubborn. He has always had severe tantrums and experienced mania but no one ever suggested that I should have him evaluated until I transferred him again to a new school due to behavioral issues.
I have learned a great deal from therapists, doctors, researchers, and other parents that have experienced the challenges of raising a Bi Polar child. I often feel that the children High 5 each other as we face have challenges with the school system. I have managed to keep both of my children in the public school system which is a challenge in itself.
I very often feel that I am pulled "Every Which Way" in their challenges and adventures, but I strive to hold on and guide them through the challenges that they face.
This Blog hopefully will help others understand the challenges, joys, and adventures of our life. I hope to provide others with insight and help you know that your are not alone.
The ages of my other children are 16 and 9. My sixteen year old (Keith) was diagnosed with ADHD when he was 5 and we continue to have adventures as he grows older.
My youngest (John) was diagnosed with Bi Polar disorder last year. I was always told he was very strong willed and stubborn. He has always had severe tantrums and experienced mania but no one ever suggested that I should have him evaluated until I transferred him again to a new school due to behavioral issues.
I have learned a great deal from therapists, doctors, researchers, and other parents that have experienced the challenges of raising a Bi Polar child. I often feel that the children High 5 each other as we face have challenges with the school system. I have managed to keep both of my children in the public school system which is a challenge in itself.
I very often feel that I am pulled "Every Which Way" in their challenges and adventures, but I strive to hold on and guide them through the challenges that they face.
This Blog hopefully will help others understand the challenges, joys, and adventures of our life. I hope to provide others with insight and help you know that your are not alone.
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